LOVE your neighbor as yourself — including the ones you harmed.
We become willing to name every person the flesh harmed — not to punish ourselves, but to prepare the ground for shalom. Willingness is not yet the conversation. Willingness is the end of pretending nobody got hurt.
The work — Write the names. Include institutions, family, the abandoned, and yourself. Mark who is owed amends, who is owed prayer, and who would be injured by contact.
If you offer your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift… first be reconciled.
MattithYAHu / Matthew 5:23-24
If possible, as much as depends on you, live in shalom with all men.
Romans 12:18
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